Life does not just happen unless you let it. And you know the ones who let it because they are the ones who are always complaining. If you wish to live your lifestyle, you want to live your way.

I am not going to hand you a lecture on how life is the work that you put into it. I am not here to bore you, saying that to control life, you have to control yourself first. I am not going to mention all the dangers you have out in the world. I will ask you a simple question. What do you really want, and what are you doing about it?

If you drift and wait for whatever comes your way, you are stuck. Well, you are stuck with whatever came your way. At the same time, if you mention that you want something, voices will come out of the woodwork explaining to you why that would never work. 

May I offer two suggestions. Do not drift and do not listen to voices. Just as there are endless miles of vast nothingness between major cities, there are 1000 ways to end up in a place you hate for every excellent position that you could land. You want to land in a place where you want to be.

If you feel you cannot do it, then I know you can. You have belief; the first test is you can feel and believe.

It is too important a subject to burn you out in one day and one blog. We will continue this from time to time. And we will look at ways that we can go from where we are to where we desire to be.

Thank you for being with me today. I hope to be with you again tomorrow.

Work With A Balance in Life

As we go through life, we have much going on around us. Some things around us we are intensely a part of, and for some, we are merely in touch. And that is okay.

We do not need to be the center of everything for everyone else. Nor should we want to be. Only so many minutes exist in a day, and there is a limit to what we can do, no matter how much we think is possible. Every one of us can do only a finite amount of actions because not one of us is infinite.

It is still important you are in touch and know what is happening with those you care about. This is where balancing your work with the rest of your life is very important. The rest of your life is, after all, at least as important as your work. Everything else includes a great deal of the reasons that you’re doing the work to start with.

It is easy to assume all is positive on other fronts when you are working 16 to 18 hours a day. And yet, because of one word in the last sentence, you need to pay attention. For just like none of us are independent, none of us have the right, or the privilege, to assume. You need to stay in touch as much as possible and participate in both the good and the bad. Being there for others is of utmost importance.

Those in your circle, wife, children, relatives, and friends may not have the training and dexterity in your skills that you do, yet, you will find them an eager and excited cheering squad for you. And, believe me, there are many times you are going to need both positive words and the cheering squad.

Remember, when you think of the others that are important, no one is as important as those who have understood your quest and are on the journey with you to where your work takes you in the future. These people are with you heart and soul and are willing to stick with you through thick and thin.

Thank you for being with me today. I hope to be with you again tomorrow.