Try Practicing  Some Gratitude in the Age of Social Media

Young lady on social media enjoying it.

Social media can be a double-edged sword. While it connects us, it often triggers unhealthy comparisons, making us feel “less than” when we see others’ highlight reels. Gratitude, however, can shift our perspective from envy to appreciation.

Start by curating your feed. Find accounts that inspire you and that you find uplifting: 

  1. Avoid those sites that make you feel inadequate. 
  2. Practice gratitude for others while scrolling. 
  3. Reflect on what you have rather than what you lack. 

For example, if you see someone’s vacation photos, appreciate your recent memories or the comforts of home.

It is also crucial to step away from social media periodically and reflect on your life’s joys. These include talking with others, good food, and triumphs.

Express your gratitude openly. Genuinely compliment others in comments or share your moments of thankfulness. Doing so will create a positive community and shift the focus from competition to connection.

Gratitude helps us recognize everyone’s journey as unique and valuable. By focusing on our blessings instead of comparisons, we can cultivate contentment and enjoy a healthier relationship with social media.

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Author: Mike Balof

A retired Air Force Master Sergeant, Mike used to lay in bed at night and worry about what would happen if his plant closed or found himself without a job. One day his plant closed. Rather than panic and hysteria (OK, maybe a little) Mike found himself carried away on the adventure of his life. Mike started with the best job he ever had working at Home Depot. He spent 8 years working with job seekers at a local workforce center, helping them to find employment. He then started his own company developing courses, writing books and urging others to follow their own paths into the future. Mike holds a Master of Arts in Adult Education and Training and a Bachelor of Business Management, earned through the University of Phoenix and an AAS degree in Electronics Systems Technology from the Community College of the Air Force. Mike is a member of the Delta Mu Delta Business Honor Society.

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