How To Overcome Negative Self-Talk And Build A Positive Mindset

Negative self-talk can be all too familiar for many of us. That voice in our head tells us we’re not good enough, smart enough, or capable enough. While it’s normal to have some self-doubt, it’s important to recognize when it’s controlling us and take action to change it.

To overcome negative self-talk, you must become aware of it. Pay attention to the thoughts that go through your head and identify the negative ones. Once you’ve identified them, challenge them. Ask yourself if they’re accurate and if there’s evidence to support them. We often find that our negative thoughts develop on assumptions, not facts.

Next, replace negative self-talk with positive affirmations. Choose a few positive phrases that resonate with you, and repeat them to yourself regularly. You need to retrain your brain to think more positively and build a more positive mindset.

Finally, surround yourself with positivity. Seek out positive people, books, and experiences. Make a conscious effort to focus on the good in your life and express gratitude for that good regularly.

Taking these steps can overcome negative self-talk and build a more positive mindset. Remember, it takes time and practice, so be patient with yourself and celebrate your progress along the way.

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Author: Mike Balof

A retired Air Force Master Sergeant, Mike used to lay in bed at night and worry about what would happen if his plant closed or found himself without a job. One day his plant closed. Rather than panic and hysteria (OK, maybe a little) Mike found himself carried away on the adventure of his life. Mike started with the best job he ever had working at Home Depot. He spent 8 years working with job seekers at a local workforce center, helping them to find employment. He then started his own company developing courses, writing books and urging others to follow their own paths into the future. Mike holds a Master of Arts in Adult Education and Training and a Bachelor of Business Management, earned through the University of Phoenix and an AAS degree in Electronics Systems Technology from the Community College of the Air Force. Mike is a member of the Delta Mu Delta Business Honor Society.

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